Why use a gag and safety
Publicado: 2023-10-23 14:01:55
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Gags are an easy-to-use tool that can bring out a range of different feelings. A mouth gag can provide feelings of vulnerability, helplessness, humiliation, frustration, embarrassment, submission, discomfort, grief and much more. Our mouth is how we generally communicate with the world, as well as being a relatively private space.
Why use a gag?
First, gags can drastically reduce the ability to speak. As speech is a huge way in which many of us communicate with the world at large, this can instantly affect the gag wearer's entire head space. Instead of being able to form sentences, the person is now mumbling incoherently and may not even be able to utter any real, working words. Since your partner will not be able to speak, he has lost the most basic sense of communication and protection. Many people tend to find this type of feeling erotic and arousing.
Almost all gags also make the user drool. If the mouth cannot close around the gag, there is no way to close the mouth and most people cannot swallow without the ability to close the mouth. This inability to swallow means the user will drool and drool a lot. Gags can also physically force the body, especially the mouth, into an unaccustomed position. While the gags don't have to be uncomfortable, you can select gags that are intended to cause discomfort.
Certain mouth gags can really put your mouth in the spotlight. Especially with O-ring gags or spider gags, the user has no way to close their mouth, which means anyone else can see inside your mouth or put their fingers in it. This can seem extremely vulnerable to many people.
With a gag you have a versatile toy that can add new sensations, feelings of vulnerability and versatility to your BDSM toolkit. A gag can be used to induce some of these feelings we mentioned and when you don't want your partner to talk for whatever reason, a gag will do the trick instantly. However, even with this fun sex object, there are some issues you should consider before purchasing and owning a gag.
Safety in the use of gags
While most other toys require communication, the gag will require more communication than other accessories. As the gags will cut off your partner's ability to speak and use the safeword, you must find other ways to communicate. Gags also tend to stretch the jaw in ways the human body is not used to.
Before tackling gags, you should sit down and talk about them. The gag can bring out a type of vulnerability that many women and men are not used to. Vulnerability can scare and confuse some people, so make sure you've talked ahead of time about the idea of using a gag, especially a traditional gag.
During the discussion, talk about an alternative safe word. We recommend that you use keys or a toy (sexual or not) that makes noise, toys for dogs are great examples of this. If your partner wants the play to stop, they can shake or drop the keys or they can squeeze the dog toy to make noise. Make sure that if your partner uses the new form of safe word, you will comply. Breaking trust by ignoring him is not the way to become a responsible BDSM practitioner or a responsible partner.
To avoid injuring your jaw too much, you need to talk to your partner about the types of jaw injuries he has had. As a general rule, as you age, your jaw becomes less resistant as you play with your mouth and jaw muscles. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't argue with your partner. If he has jaw problems, you don't have to avoid playing with gags, just modify him a little.
A gag should never be used for more than twenty minutes or more if you are dealing with a beginner. Jaw muscles can tire very quickly, so let your partner know. He doesn't have to feel like he has to keep you for a long time for it to be fun for both of you. Once it gets painful, he should let you know so you can remove the gag. As both of you become more experienced with the gags, you can start using them for longer periods of time. Still, in moderation.
When it comes to using gags, there are a few things to be aware of: On the one hand, for the user, if they are new, they will probably hurt a little or make your jaw hurt. However, if it becomes intolerable, it must be removed. It all depends on what kind of gag it is, but for most traditional gags, you're going to drool. Let the user know this before placing it. Some people find it humiliatingly exciting and some people find it humiliating and don't want it. Another great point of using gags is that they affect the ability to breathe. If the user has an allergy, cold, flu or any respiratory problem, save the gags for another day. The gags will make it much harder for them to breathe.
