20 Most Common Kinks and Fetishes

1. BDSM
   BDSM is a generic term for slavery, discipline/domination, submission/sadism, and masochism. All of these kinks and fetishes depend on power play - that is, the voluntary, erotic exchange of power. BDSM is all about one party exerting dominance over the other in a mutually consensual, pre-agreed, and satisfying encounter. This kink is for you if you fantasize about letting your partner do whatever they want with you, or if you feel pleasure at the idea of ​​"making" your partner serve and please you.

2. Sadism and masochism
   Sadism and masochism are under the umbrella of BDSM. These kinks are all about your relationship with pain. A sadist takes pleasure in inflicting pain on a sexual partner, and a masochist takes pleasure in receiving it. What do you fantasize about when you masturbate? If your fantasies tend to involve the exchange of pain, you may want to let your inner sadist or masochist date a partner who is equally sadistic and masochistic.

3. Ropes and bondage
   Having a bondage or rope kink is one of the most well-known fetishes out there. This one is for you if you like the idea of ​​restricting your partner or being restricted. Maybe that makes you feel safe and taken care of? Or desired and subjugated? Or powerful and in charge? Exploiting this fetish requires a safe word so you can easily end the scene if it becomes too much. Also have scissors handy so that the strings can be removed simply and quickly.

   

4. Socks
   This kink is marked by an interest in wearing pantyhose or having a partner wear pantyhose during sexual activity. If you find that you often ask your partner to wear socks, or you feel a strong urge to wear them during sex and you get more pleasure from wearing or seeing socks, you may have a fetish or kink for pantyhose. Explore buying socks, especially types made for sex (ie with an opening for the intimate area).

5. Voyeurism
   A voyeurism fetish focuses on getting aroused by watching other people have sex. You may discover that this is your fetish for being particularly aroused by seeing yourself having sex in the mirror. To explore this fetish further, be sure to involve yourself in a consensual situation, such as at a sex club or sex party.

   

6. Exhibitionism
   Exhibitionism is getting excited by being watched. If you fantasize about having sex, masturbating or getting naked in front of an audience or want someone to watch you, then you might find this fetish enjoyable. You might want to have sex in settings like sex clubs, or maybe you just want to leave the curtains open while you have sex in your bedroom. This fetish can be a lot of fun, but make sure what you're doing doesn't get you arrested for indecent exposure!

7. Interpretation - RolePlay
   This fetish is defined by taking on different personalities during sex and experiencing heightened pleasure in coming out of yourself. For example, maybe you and your partner play a librarian and a student, or a delivery boy and a homemaker. You're usually shy, but do you really let go and come harder when you don't need to be yourself? Maybe roleplay is your solution.

   

8. Dirty Talk - Dirty Talk
   Dirty talk is exactly what it sounds like: using suggestive or explicit language during sex to increase sensation and arousal. If you like to use words to feel powerful during sex, you will know if this is your fetish or not if you reach orgasm faster by talking or listening to a good dirty talk.

9. Nipple game
   Some people may have a sprained nipple, either because they themselves have very sensitive nipples and love to play with them, or because they are attracted to their partner's nipples. People who are generally attracted to nipples may find they have a nipple fetish. Adjust, lick and bite your partner's nipples or invite him to do it on yours to find out if this is your fetish.

10. Humiliation
    A humiliation fetish is about being put in your place by a partner. Someone with a humiliation fetish might, for example, enjoy hearing that their penis is too small or that they are pathetic or a bitch. Humiliation fetish can also be enacted through different types of power play such as boot licking or facials. It's all about the meaning people attach to certain acts.

11. Relationships led by women
    Female-led relationships (FLR) is all about women at the top. People with an FLR fetish are turned on by giving the woman, in a heterosexual relationship, most of the sexual control. This can feel like sex centered on your pleasure or her deciding when and how sex should be had. You may have an FLR fetish if you are a man who tends towards submission in many areas of life, or if you are a woman who likes the idea of ​​subverting traditional female roles.

    

12. Financial Domination
    Financial domination, also known as FinDom, is usually a fetish, but it can also be a kink. It involves giving complete control of your finances to someone else or being kept on a strict budget or being ordered to buy certain things. This fetish is for you if the idea of ​​giving up so much control in such an important part of life excites you. You can explore it starting with a trusted partner and introduce a financial element into your sex life. For example, you could say that 10% of your monthly income should be spent on sexy gifts for your partner and go from there.

13. Auralism
    Auralism is just the word for having a sound kink, meaning being activated by hearing things. For example, you might get more turned on by hearing the sound of your partner hitting you while having sex, or the sound of your moaning or how sweaty he is. You can explore this kink by trying to dampen other senses, using a blindfold, for example, to be able to focus on the noises.

14. Game of age
    This kink is a specific type of roleplay where one or two adults assume different roles or ages from reality. This might be your kink if you've ever been turned on by being called a baby, boy/girl, mommy or daddy in bed. The age game can range from using different names to literally dressing up like a baby, it all depends on what you feel comfortable and excited about.

15. Control of orgasm
    This fetish is common among people who are generally interested in BDSM. It is exactly what it says: let your partner control the moment of your orgasm. This is often achieved through the use of BDSM. The dominant partner restrains the submissive partner and stimulates him to the brink of orgasm - and only lets him orgasm when/if the dominant partner wants to. You can be in this fetish if you are interested in submitting your pleasure to someone else.

16. Non-Consensual Consent
    Consensual non-consent is a fetish where someone gets turned on by the idea of ​​being "caught" by your partner while pretending to say no. Sometimes referred to as a "rape fantasy", this fetish is always pre-agreed and must be carefully negotiated by all parties involved.

17. Gags
    Having a gag fetish can mean that you are excited to use or make your partner use a gag of some kind. Silicone gags or bits are common toys for this. This fetish speaks to people who love the feeling of being at someone's mercy and not being able to speak. It is important when exploring this fetish that the person who is gagged can still communicate.

    

18. Praise Fetish
    Someone with a compliment fetish is aroused by praise and encouragement - for example, when you are told "You're doing such a good job, sucking my dick" or "You're so cute when..." While most people like to receiving compliments, someone with a compliment fetish will really be pushed to the limit when receiving them in a sexual setting. People who are a little unsure of themselves or who struggle with attachment issues may particularly have this fetish.

19. fetish of degradation
    A degradation fetish can be considered the opposite of a praise fetish. A person with this fetish is aroused by being denigrated and degraded by the partner through words or actions (eg, being spit on). This fetish can do something for you if you are inclined to be submissive and like your partner to take control and tell you what to do in a sexual situation.

20. Autoplushophilia (furries)
    Known in everyday parlance as a "furry fetish," autoplushophilia involves dressing up in animal costumes and engaging in sexual play. A furry is someone who gets turned on by imagining himself and others as anthropomorphic animals. As a sexual practice, this is often a really fun way to connect with your partner. If you like to dress up or have a huge plush collection - this fetish might be for you.

Things to keep in mind when exploring fetishes and kinks.

Whenever you play with fetish, especially those that have a BDSM element, it's very important to get involved in aftercare. A big rush of endorphins can feel euphoric, but once it's over, many people report feeling a 'drop'. Having a plan to cuddle, eat and drink water and/or watch a program that feels familiar and comforting can help complete the experience and make you feel more connected.

We recommend that you contact a friendly therapist or sexuality professional to help navigate your desires in a healthy and pleasurable way. Above all, it's most important to keep the lines of communication open with partners when it comes to fetish sex or kinks. There's room for things to go wrong if all parties aren't totally shameless and honest with each other.

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